Elevated Mindset
How You Do One Thing Is How You Do Everything
As an Exceptional Woman - you must have the DEEPEST understanding of Wealth Mindset of your Exceptional Man.
Just try to comprehend what it takes to build Generational Wealth, truly.
And if you don’t understand every word in the next story, you have some work to do.
This mindset shapes the life of your man.
Consistency requires SUPERIOR level of FOCUS, non-stop strategy thinking.
He will be thinking about all of this every second while he is awake, right when he goes to sleep, and he will probably have dreams about work at night too. He will be thinking about it while everyone around are talking, he will be like under-water.
*Interesting fact: I noticed a pattern that when men make exactly in the range of $400-800k/mo inconsistently, they go just a little bit crazy inside (totally understandable), their eyes change - they turn very dark, and very-very deep. And whenever I would be talking to such businessmen - I would see that they are not completely present. They have that layer of fog in their eyes that is constantly thinking about the business.
Just try to understand them - their goal right now, probably, is to make $1M/mo after they got so close to it. And they haven’t been able to create a proven system of hitting that number. They might have achieved it - but they cannot make it stable. So it’s getting on their nerves, and right now they are in the state where they are pushing themselves towards the goal. As their woman - you’ll have to deeply understand them, and act accordingly.
You must become a perfect Ally for him, he doesn’t have time to entertain your life, you are both self-sufficient. You either on-board with an idea of Generational Prosperity with him, or not.
And BECAUSE he has the Wealth Mindset - you’ll have to turn on your Adaptive/Ally Mindset >
When he would want me to make him forget about work? Reduce the pressure for a couple hours? When do I need to turn on that seductress, give him that experience of Mind-blowing Pleasure [do not underestimate men’s libido. If you are not performing, if you cannot turn on & off your sensual self - he will look elsewhere. I believe, you don’t want it].
Men who are building their Business Empires - they just physically CANNOT turn OFF their thinking process on their own. Especially those in the growth period. SO -> you must learn how to help him switch OFF for a short period of time to reduce pressure, and let his brain rejuvenate, refresh - so he can wake up and continue building.
You do that by tapping into Highly Sexually Charged Presence. HIGHLY Feminine. You create a Heightened Presence in a matter of a second, switching from peaceful calming feminine state to heightened & arousing.When he is in the LASER-FOCUS-mode, and I shall not interfere with his focus at any cost -> this one requires at times physically just not being near him. And dealing with your own Ally-tasks.
Example 1
In the background, while he is busy, you are:
Arranging that networking dinner you volunteered to help him with:
figuring out the best restaurant in the city most suitable for the occasion;
Making sure you get that perfect booking of the time in the best restaurant, using your elegant voice & eloquence. Turning on your feminine charm if needed.
Sending invitations to everyone&making sure they got it
Follow up calls with everyone if needed + with the restaurant
Talking with the chef on the menu
Making sure the music would be appropriate for the occasion, the band, or DJ whatever it is
Example 2
You’ve noticed he doesn’t have an appropriate outfit for his upcoming Business Event / Networking Event / Party:
Because you already know his size, & exactly what would fit him - you go & buy the whole look if needed.
Keep in mind the average price of his clothes & the attire that everyone would be wearing at the Event. Keep in mind his philosophy when it comes to Style, and how he represents himself through that. Figure out the best pricing - & go shop. Whatever it is - your favourite Italian Boutique, Brunello Cucinelli, or a completely new tailored suit - you must know his preference & what would make him Exceptional at the event compared to everyone else.To do the prior - you must quickly scan the event, understand the guests, who they are, what they do. If you gonna be with him - understand his goals at the event and the role you are playing. Ask him what’s needed from you too. And make it your mission. Your Exceptional Man will ALWAYS have a reason for every event he is attending. ALWAYS. He’s a strategist, remember that. He doesn’t waste his time.
Prior to the event, you either iron & prepare everything on your own, or you send it to dry-cleaning company. MAKING SURE they are exceptionally good at their job. Check it. Do it before-hand in case they make a mistake.
All in all, you must start thinking strategically like your man, and play your part too. Exceptionally well.
I want you to adapt this pattern of thinking.
Moreover, this has to become your second nature. Because those decisions are made within SECONDS, & you just go & execute whatever needs to be done. Because you also have your own life, your own small business probably, hobbies, physical activities, meeting with your girlfriends etc etc.
Not easy huh)
As a woman, adapting such a mindset, besides being Exceptionally Gorgeous & Elegant - that is the least you can do for your man, and for your family. At this point - you are a Generational Thinker, like your man. And you are competing with the best of the best in the World. Do not expect this to be easy, but do intend to go though this with Grace & play your part.
Why an Elegant Mind is quiet & calm?
Being Poised & Calm in a social setting is a superpower as a woman. You get to observe as your partner is taking action, or is focused on socializing, closing a client, creating a connection.
It increases your attention, allowing you to shift your focus outwards rather than inwards. If you are taken by emotions - you are less likely to control yourself, your words, your movements. Your mind is foggy, and you are less susceptible to be the best Ally for your man.
When you are in the room full of business-owners, think of it as if you are in a room full of sharks. Don’t trust anyone. Be light, charming & elegant. Make the room brighter with your feminine energy if needed.
Increased Self-Awareness allows you to observe & notice details of human behavior that others wouldn’t notice.
Cold Mind. Playful, Light & Calm Demeanor. Exceptional Manners. Take everything in & learn as you go.
Elegant & Feminine women are simply mentally less reactive to emotions of people around them, and less reactive to nuances:
Someone made an offensive joke;
Spilled a beverage onto you by accident (or even if it’s not by accident - staying calm is the best decision & shows the strength of your character);
The fork fell on the floor;
doesn’t matter what it is - don’t let such a small nuance affect your light demeanor! who cares - it happened already ihih!
Just smile after, and take it easy! Mistakes happen to all, and you are not your mistakes!
Being Socially & Emotionally Intelligent is one of the hardest skills that one can posses. It requires a LOT of experience & exposure to the world.
RAISING YOUR SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
Prelude from Leyla: “My goal is to prepare you for a great life, the same way I would prepare my daughters. Ignorance can be a bliss, truly. But knowledge is power. Light and elegant demeanor despite the pressure - is a Mastery.”
My father has raised me with the understanding: ‘Think like a Man, Walk like a Woman. Cold Mind, with a Pretty Face & Elegant Attitude’.
And, well, since I am 21, and I’ve been working with millionaires & their wives, women in business, & daughters of respected families in Europe - I believe, my father has created a dangerous yet efficient blend haha!
Social & Emotional Intelligence for Partners of Hyper-Achieving Men || Generational Thinking & Wealth Creation
Shifting from Rivalry between sexes -> to a philosophy of Complementarity
You need to comprehend the strategic games that all businessmen are playing, the war mindset that most Hyper-Achievers have. The easiest way for others to get to your Hyper-Achieving Man can be through you. Especially if he is extra successful. Men are smart, & they build trust with each other strategically. Over time. Through different tools.
Example 1.
A businessman can get his wife/girlfriend to become friends with you. Then she will get into your trust. And then you will say “hey, come over with your husband to us, we will make a dinner! It’s gonna be so fun!”. Without understanding that it was all planned.
How to foresee it without loosing your mind & being paranoid?
> Adapt an inner entrepreneurial mindset & detach from your emotions while evaluating the situation. Cold mind. Think objectively. None of it is good nor bad.
Your pattern of thinking would usually go something like this:
Hmm, what role are they playing right now? What’s their goal here?
Is their’s family industry related to my father’s industry? / my husband’s industry? Is there any benefit in their connection? Is there any benefit in getting to know our family’s lifestyle, places we go & stay in etc etc.
Okay, now that I’ve evaluated it -> do I allow it? If there’s an actual benefit in this venture - do I play along to get to understand their true intentions for sure, or do I cut it right here & right now for myself - because I understand that they are players of higher league, and right now I am not yet ready to play on the same level, and act smartly.
Taking into consideration that I’m 21, very VERY early on in my life I’ve learnt that - if you are a HIGHLY feminine, elegant, natural, soft and kind woman [which is BEAUTIFUL!] - you MUST become incredibly emotionally & socially intelligent.
There is a lot of attention at you ALL THE TIME. You are more prone to be approached, your energy is contagious because it’s light and feminine - and a lot of people will want a piece of that.
In order to protect it, and filter out truly good people - we must cultivate an Elegant Mind, see through people’s intentions and manipulations. Remaining Elegant & Polite.
Hard isn’t it haha!
Let’s talk about it on our Wednesday Call 8pm Dubai Time?
Raising Your Social Intelligence
For Women in Business || Partners of Hyper-Achieving Men || Daughters of Respected Families
My father has raised me with the understanding: ‘Think like a Man, Walk like a Woman. Cold Mind, with a Pretty Face & Elegant Attitude’.
And, well, since I am 21, and I’ve been working with millionaires & their wives, women in business, & daughters of respected families in Europe - I believe, my father has created a dangerous yet efficient blend haha!